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Praying Together 14th July 2024

Praying Together 14th July 2024

children laughing

Special Children and Young People Edition

Let us come from our everyday routine and meet with God – the one who made us, and who gave us our daily bread through the week just gone.

The gathering prayer

Loving Lord, thank you that you meet us where we are, in the middle and muddle of our daily tasks. Help us to hear your call, to recognise your voice, and to respond to your invitation to be with you now. Amen.

Deuteronomy 6:6-7: “These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.”

Psalm 127:3-5: “Children are a heritage from the Lord, offspring a reward from him

Proverbs 17:6: “Children’s children are a crown to the aged,

Proverbs 22:6: “Start children off on the way they should go, and even when they are old they will not turn from it.”

Proverbs 29:17: “Discipline your children, and they will give you peace; they will bring you the delights you desire.”

Ephesians 6:4: “Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord.”

Matthew 18:2-5: “He called a little child to him, and placed the child among them. And he said: ‘Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.'”

Mark 10:13-16: “People were bringing little children to Jesus for him to place his hands on them, but the disciples rebuked them. When Jesus saw this, he was indignant. He said to them, ‘Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these.'”

Colossians 3:21: “Fathers, do not embitter your children, or they will become discouraged.”

You may remember (of course, you may not) that last week we considered the question asked by people who had heard of John the Baptist’s somewhat unusual naming ceremony, when his dad Zechariah was released from his months of silence. ‘What then is this child to be?’

We considered life’s journey – even though we know that through Christ our destiny is sure, we have no idea of the route by which we’ll get there, each of us in different ways.

But there is one thing we all have in common. We were children once. And our grown-up personalities and beliefs have been hugely influenced by our experiences in the first few years of our lives – some good, and some, sadly, not so good.

I remember Marjorie’s Mum Lily asking a new nurse trainee ‘Who is the most important person in the Hospital?’ “Matron” the student replied. “The Patient” corrected Lily.

Who is the most important person in Church? Well, it sure ain’t me.

It’s every one of God’s children, irrespective of their age. When we come to worship, we come as family. It’s the one time in the week when we are together around the table – and each has an individual need. Some look for teaching, some to offer praise and thanksgiving, some for fellowship. Our very young ones simply want to be made welcome and loved as members of that family. You will often hear it said that “Children are the future of the Church”. Wrong. They are it’s present, the here and now.

So sometimes, us grownups put aside our own preferences for silence and serious Scripture study (we don’t have to be in church to do that anyway). We come together, always aware of the need to bring the children to Him, as He told us we must.

They may wriggle and squawk a bit – sing in the wrong place – toddle up the aisle to have a close look at that strange person standing at the front dressed up in funny clothes – embarrass their parents. So what. I don’t remember the Ten Commandments saying they shouldn’t.

With thanks to Suzanne, you may wish to sing the following to the tune of ‘Wheels on the Bus’

Some grownups in the Church go ‘Tut Tut Tut”…

The parents in the Church say ‘Just sit still”…

Jesus says to everyone ‘Bring them to Me’

God in His heaven says, “You are all mine”

And remember:

If there is no laughter, Jesus has gone somewhere else. If there is no joy and freedom, it is not a church: it is simply a crowd of melancholy people reciting familiar words. If there is no celebration, there is no worship.”
Steve Brown (altd)

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Praying Together 7th July 2024

Praying Together 7th July 2024

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Collect for Trinity 6

Merciful God, you have prepared for those who love you such good things as pass our understanding: Pour into our hearts such love toward you that we, loving you above all things, may obtain your promises, which exceed all that we can desire; through Jesus Christ our Lord.

Luke 1:57-66 – The Birth of John the Baptist

Mark 6:6-13 The Mission of the Twelve

What then will this child become?

It is inevitable that people should speculate about a child’s future life – when Zecharia was healed of his inability to speak at the naming ceremony for his son John, all who heard asked ‘what will this child become?’ (Luke 1:66) We know something they didn’t – that he would become ‘The Baptiser’.

It will have been the same for the disciples in their childhood ‘Well, Simon Peter, what would you like to be when you grow up? Fisherman, like your Dad? What do you mean – Bishop of Rome??? Don’t be silly.’

But that’s what happened. Jesus appointed the unlikeliest people to be the ones who would spread the Gospel message of forgiveness, healing and freedom. They would never have believed it, or even thought it would be possible – but clearly, in the presence of Jesus, they are changed and equipped for their chosen task.

And so are we. When you were a child, what did you want to be? Nurse? Scientist? Bus driver? Politician? Put your hand up if you said ‘Apostle’. Yup – thought so. You will notice that my hand wasn’t up either, as it wouldn’t be if I had asked ‘Evangelist’, ‘Disciple’, ‘Prophet’, ‘Teacher’ ‘Healer’, ‘Priest’. But nevertheless some of us are in one or more of those roles, and some of us will be even if we don’t know it yet.

Being a Christian – being the Body of Christ – is the task to which we are called. Sometimes that is being with Him in quiet meditation – sometimes it is being committed to work in His Creation, putting our faith into action according to our gifts and our opportunities. You can’t have one without the other. (James 2:14-17) So be blessed to (and be prepared for) whatever you are called this day, in His name, however unexpected!

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Praying Together 30th June 2024

Praying Together 30th June 2024

sadness and exhaustion

Collect for Trinity 5

Almighty and everlasting God, by whose Spirit the whole body of the Church is governed and sanctified: Hear our prayer which we offer for all your faithful people, that in their vocation and ministry they may serve you in holiness and truth to the glory of your name; through our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ.

2 Corinthians 8: 7 – 15

Mark 5: 21 – 24, 35 – 43

If Jesus healed Jairus’ daughter, why didn’t He heal my Grandad?

I try to encourage questions about our Bible readings and the message they contain – but this one, from a child, is perhaps the one I dread most. The passage seems to teach a straightforward lesson about Jesus’ power over Illness and death, as do many other stories – the woman with the haemorrhage, Lazarus and many others. So if them, why not me? Why does Jesus’ healing appear selective? Anyway, why does a loving God allow suffering, illness and death at all?

The answer deserves a reply – but the question and its reply has been around for two thousand years. It involves consideration of human free will, sin and the existence of evil as well as the more practical aspect of death being essential part of the human condition – there would be no room left on earth if everyone were immortal. And the debate continues to this day. Despite having heard and read many such discussions, in truth, for me, I would still have to say I don’t really know the definitive answer. Even Paul didn’t know, actually – he writes of our knowledge being incomplete, like a dim image in a clouded mirror.

But I do know this: that if there were no sadness, I could not know joy: if there were no illness, I could not know health: if there were no hatred, I could not know love: if there were no death, I could not know life. If God fixed all my problems on my behalf, I would be no more than a puppet, not a person with choices. And the Bible teaches that I do have. I can choose love – but am also able to deny love. God gives us that freedom.

So what lesson does this scripture tell us? I suggest it is about faith in the midst of despair. Jesus’ healing is a signpost pointing to the culmination of His divine mission, that encompasses His suffering and torture, His death, His triumph over sin through His cross, and the defeat of evil in His resurrection. So in the face of my uncertainties, I trust Him; and one day, I will know the answer to all the hard questions.

And I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, “Look! God’s dwelling place is now among the people, and he will dwell with them. They will be his people, and God himself will be with them and be their God. ‘He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death’ or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.” – Revelation 21:3-4

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Praying Together 23rd June 2024

Praying Together 23rd June 2024

a woman lying awake worrying

Collect for Trinity 4

O God, the protector of all who trust in you, without whom nothing is strong, nothing is holy: Increase and multiply upon us your mercy; that with you as our ruler and guide, we may so pass through things temporal that we finally lose not the things eternal: Grant this, heavenly Father, for Jesus Christ’s sake, our Lord.

2 Corinthians 6: 1 – 13

Mark 4: 35 – 41

The Bible contains lots of references to storms – the drowning of Pharaoh’s army, Noah’s flood, the destruction of Sodom and Gomorrah, Jonah trying to escape God’s request, the disciples on the Sea of Galilee, Paul’s shipwreck off Malta, and the prophecy in Revelation of the storm that announces Jesus’ second coming.

But there are other types of storms – not physical ones at sea, but storms in our lives. Paul certainly had his, as he is not shy of telling us: ‘afflictions, hardships, calamities, beatings, imprisonments, riots, labours, sleepless nights, hunger’. Often all at once – ‘When sorrows come, they come not as single spies, but in battalions’, as said Shakespeare’s Claudius.

But Paul treated both hardship and comfort alike, rising above them through the grace of God. The disciples were experiencing a gale that would barely compare to the storm they would experience in Christ’s Passion – but they, and we, are also taught to trust and to rise above whatever happens, to fulfil our commandment to love irrespective of the cost. He is at our side, and we can smile at whatever storms may come.

It wasn’t only the wind and sea that will obey Him – the whole of heaven and earth will kneel before Him as Lord.

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Praying Together 16th June 2024

Praying Together 16th June 2024

child playing with a Rubik's cube

Collect for Trinity 3

Lord, you have taught us that all our doings without love are worth nothing: Send your Holy Spirit and pour into our hearts that most excellent gift of love, the true bond of peace and of all virtues, without which whoever lives is counted dead before you. Grant this for your only Son Jesus Christ’s sake.

2 Corinthians 5: 6 – 17

Mark 4: 26 – 34

Why parables?

Now, what I want is Facts. Teach these boys and girls nothing but Facts. Facts alone are wanted in life. Plant nothing else, and root out everything else. You can only form the mind of reasoning animals upon Facts: nothing else will ever be of any service to them.’

So speaks Mr. Gradgrind, the teacher in Charles Dickens ‘Hard Times’, in the first chapter of the book. He couldn’t be more wrong. ‘Facts’ alone actually stultify the process of reasoning. On their own, they do not convey meaning or enable learning. To do so, they have to be contextualised, and easily the best way of doing this is through the vehicle of story; and so through the ages, story has been used as the basis of wisdom transfer. Stories have the ability to convey deep truths across generational, cultural and even linguistic boundaries in a way that dry facts never will. Not only that, but the use of stories to teach a lesson offers the added benefit that people actually enjoy hearing them; they are easy to remember and can be repeated and shared. When learning is not seen as a chore but as a pleasant experience, it is also at its most effective.

Jesus is speaking to a crowd by the lakeside. Some will be educated, some not; there will be those who want to learn, others who are just passing by and listen out of curiosity. The stories used by Jesus to explain the Kingdom of heaven – the ‘parables’ – offer understandable truth to all of them whoever they may be– and through many generations, to us.

But to get the best from a story or parable does demand that we think about (and put into practice) it’s significance. What audience is Jesus addressing? Do we identify with one of the actors? Is He explaining about the Kingdom? Is His purpose teaching, encouraging, or rebuking? What lesson are we meant to take away?

Eventually, even Mr Gradgrind realises that facts alone cannot coney truth. A parable may not be ‘factual’ – but does tell a truth – and it is truth that sets us free.

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